Date of publication: 2017-07-08 21:49
Anneka, I have also accepted gifts at Christmas I don 8767 t think there can be a hard-and-fast rule. If it 8767 s a genuine expression of love and gratitude, as was the case with your client, it would be cruel to reject it, don 8767 t you think?
No? Huh. That s weird. My friend just moved away from the city with her husband and her mother sold her condo, uprooted her business and moved to the same small town so she could be near her daughter and family.
These people are damaged people, total energy drainers & TIME-WASTERS. Once you spot . Don 8767 t yearn for them or lament over them!
You speak about him as if this was something that was relatively fresh..however, years have gone by. He is living his life out there somewhere (maybe wreaking havoc in someone else 8767 s life maybe not.. who cares? Who gives a damn? It 8767 s not your problem).
Again with the usual caveats because I don t know you and I don t see you in your real life, but it seems to me like for you, this route of pursuing increased emotional intelligence may very well be extremely beneficial to your dating luck.
If you were, in fact, a 8775 cold, hard bitch, 8776 it was his job to understand the reasons why and to help you. I understand how awful you feel, but you 8767 re better off shifting to someone who knows how to work with you.
My saving grace is that thankfully people who have the combination of traits I seek mostly want those same traits in a partner, so my dating pool isn t zero. Someone similar whose ideal disagreed a bit about what was important in a date or a mate would really struggle.
I think often incompatibility comes with not knowing what our real values are. And this actually takes a lot of introspection and digging and trying. . what we actually need in a partner.
That describes a lot of single guys, too. I can t speak to your standards but I can say that spending this much time worrying about this topic borders on self-defeating all by itself.